Hollywood’s favorite model-turned-relationship-sage Kaia Gerber just dropped some serious tea about her dating history, and we’re here for the unfiltered truth.

In a candid podcast interview, the 24-year-old supermodel spilled the beans on her past romantic entanglements, revealing a pattern of dating older partners that often left her compromising her own identity. “I used to completely change my personality and values for someone,” Gerber admitted, laying bare the toxic dynamics of age-gap relationships.

The Sacrifice Game

Gerber’s romantic resume reads like a Hollywood who’s who - Austin Butler, Pete Davidson, and Jacob Elordi - but her revelations suggest these relationships were far from glamorous. She candidly shared how she believed showing love meant “giving up her entire life” for her partner, a mindset that ultimately eroded her sense of self.

Healing and Growth

Now, with her current relationship with actor Lewis Pullman, Gerber seems to have found a healthier dynamic. Her key insight? Dating a friend first. “I really feel like if you have the opportunity to date a friend, do it,” she explained, emphasizing mutual respect and understanding.

Her journey is a powerful reminder that love shouldn’t require self-erasure. Sometimes, the most radical act of love is maintaining your own sense of self. Take notes, Bay Area romantics - this is how you do healthy relationships.